Wednesday, October 16, 2024

Be Thankful For What We Have



A frost warning is on for our area tonight. I grabbed the last tub of tomatoes off the vine. If the warm July temperatures had held, I would even have more. There were marble sized tomatoes starting. 



Washed, drying and color coded for ripening in brown paper bags. 


And more peppers. The pepper plants are so healthy they look like overgrown bushes, profuse with leaves. And they are still flowering with more pepper buds. I have frozen so many peppers. 


Washed and drying. I then cored and seeded them, let them drain on a cooling rack and put them in ziplocks for what I am guessing will be weekly stuffed peppers. I am thinking of stuffing the baby ones with cream cheese, onion and sausage for appetizers at some point.  I have bags and bags of pepper strips on my freezer door, too. 

My dear husband remembered to grab the potted mums and put them to bed in the garage. I guess we are ready. 


I was asked to speak about my work on the county's Homeless Task Force last night. I said yes about a month or more ago and then the closer the date came, I started getting nervous. I tend to forget I don't really like to talk in front of groups I don't know and I forget I don't like to drive at night.  But, of course, it all went just fine. And then once I start talking, I can't stop and I don't want them to bring out a hook.  I wrote my speech that morning and tried to remember to look up at the crowd. 

I was speaking to a ladies church group who are focusing on the Corporal Works of Mercy. (Matthew 25:35-46) I was the "shelter the homeless" month. I gave a brief speech about the goals of the group, the challenges, and what we are looking at for the future. Basically we are just trying to put our finger in the holes of the dike since any type of solution will require huge amounts of cash and expertise that we don't have.

I think in a small rural community it is hard for people to realize the extent of the problem. Our homeless are hidden.  They are sleeping in vehicles, visiting 24 hour establishments, sleeping in campers or tents when weather permits, and "couch surfing", staying on friend's and relative's couches until they are forced to move to another location. A teacher I know has a student who is part of a family with 4 children and a mom who has been living in a camper on a relative's property. They are hooked up to power but have to go into the house for water and restroom.  

There are so many reasons people are homeless. In our community many stand alone rental houses were sold when housing prices rose. Many rentals became Airbnb locations since we have nearby vacation spots. Landlords can make more just renting in the summer to tourists than year round to families.  Working poor have been priced out of the market with lack of units and higher rents. Apartments that used to accept assistance like Metro have become private. Landlords don't have to meet housing standards and do the repairs that metro requires because people are willing to pay full rental for units with issues.  And then we have a segment of people who are just unable to navigate life and housing on their own. 

We do have "warming" shelters in my area. Basically cots in the meeting room at the police station where people (including families) can spend the night in bad weather. And it is a catch 22 as they might not seek shelter at a police station, yet the police station is safe and there are people there 24/7. We have two locations with showers available. We have a donation program for a program at a local laundromat for washing of clothing during a certain day and time. We have lists of food pantries and church that provide free meals. 

I shared the story of a woman that my own church organization helped last winter. She was a couch surfer, in her 50's and disabled, who had qualified and found a metro approved unit with affordable rent. She told me how uncomfortable it was to use someone else's bathroom to shower. You had to be careful not to use their shampoos or soaps, or personal items. She always felt in the way. The first thing she was looking forward to was to showering in her own shower in her own apartment.

I don't know where I am going with this. Except tonight is a night I am worried about people who don't have a home in my community. Do they have blankets? Do they have a place to go? Did they have dinner tonight?  

I should mention the ladies group had each member bring laundry detergent to donate to a woman's shelter in our area as part of their corporal works of mercy program. 

9 comments:

  1. Your peppers are beautiful! For some reason, ours didn't do at all well this year and we only had a few.
    Good for you for speaking!
    I think our homeless are hidden as well, as our community is quite rural. And yes, I can't imagine when it's getting so cold out.

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  2. Our homeless are also hidden in this rural community. I have no doubt they are out there. I don't know what there is available, other than a food shelf I used to volunteer at. You have a lot of tomatoes and peppers.

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  3. Mostly the homeless leave here and go to warmer climates in the South. They are usually in their vehicles in the summer, we did have one fellow who frequented the Museum, LIbrary etc...not sure where he slept. I was told we should call them houseless not homeless. Good for you making people more aware!

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  4. Seeing all your tomatoes and peppers sure takes me back to growing up on our farm and our big vegetable garden--gosh it looks delicious, Miss Merry! And very commendable what you're doing with your volunteer work and the homeless and all. Your energy amazes me.

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  5. Homelessness is a sad thing. There was a time when I was homeless with 3 children. It was certainly a shameful time in my mind. All these years later, things have worked out, but I tell you true, during those long weeks, I was just sick with fear. And the thing that I remember most is that I couldn't feel my lips. I was working, but it wasn't enough. I just was not enough.

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  6. Stand alone decent homes that are not large ... rent starts at 1,500 per month or higher. Mortgages for those same houses are about the same. I know, I looked in to it. In our rural area a one bedroom apartment can go for $1,000 a month! Who can afford that??

    Our town is trying to improve living situations they have a huge apartment complex being built downtown with a day care and shops in it. It will be low income rent and the daycare center is going to be rented out for $1.
    Since we are a tourist town and we need workers, each small town is starting to do the same. Child care centers and income adjusted new apartments.

    My youngest son lived homeless for over a year. He couch surfed and lived in his car and actually preferred it that way [he liked his freedom]. But that didn't last too long.

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  7. Your garden goodies look yummy. We've had 3 days of frost here, so glad you were able to get things picked and indoors. Back when I had a garden, I never tried the brown paper bag thing for ripening tomatoes. Homeless...such a problem. I had a grass roots charity for 14 years called Bridge and Beyond. I collected hand knitted and crocheted hats, scarves, personal care items, socks, and afghans and donated them to homeless shelters in our area. I had to close it down when our post office closed because donations came from all over. I tried to find people to take over my blog and keep things going, but that effort fail by the wayside. I applaud your efforts. We can't all do everything; but each of us can do somethings to help. Keep up the good work. On my personal blog, Sandy's Space I still post afghans I make from donated squares that get donated to The Family Shelter. Thanks for your visit to Traveling Suitcase.

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  8. I've had a small garden at each of our five houses we lived in before this condo. No garden space here for me. There is a small patch out back that there is a lottery for each year. I don't think I stand a chance. But I have never, ever been able to grow green peppers. I tried each year and if I got a 2 inch pepper I was lucky! Yours are gorgeous. The price of peppers is so high at the grocery store and we love them.
    Thank you for your diligent work with and for the homeless. It's a huge problem all over the world. Everywhere we've been in the USA has had an issue and London too. I try to do my best in making things and donating hygiene items to the Open Door Mission where Dennis volunteers. I've found it's better to give to shelters, etc., rather than hand someone on the corner money.
    Many, many blessings to you for your heart for people. And boy, do I understand speaking to people. I get so nervous and try to avoid it whenever possible. :-)
    Blessings and love,
    Betsy

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  9. What a post....You are to be commended for all the work you do for the homeless in your area....My son works for the Catholic diocese of our area and provides IT support for Catholic Social services. He does IT support for the food pantries, shelters, 2 veteran's homes for homeless Vets that are supported and run by the Diocese...When Joe passed away, Joey contacted the director of one of the shelters and he came with a van to pick up all of Joe's clothes...They also have a mobile Clothing store that will park at different churches so people in different communities can come for free clothing....Several other churches in our area also run their own soup kitchens, pantries and shelters plus health care clinics....Many people who frequent the soup kitchens are senior citizens in our area that have homes but are trying to make ends meet....It is a sad situation....Thanks so much for always stopping by!!
    Hugs,
    Deb
    Debbie-Dabble Blog

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