First stop - the egg farm.
Welcome to my little gray house with the picket fence. Thank you for visiting!
Friday, July 11, 2025
Field Trip Friday
Thursday, July 10, 2025
Thursday Charity Day
First - my steak salad. Here is the recipe I use:
https://wellsfarmsbeef.com/blogs/recipe-challenge-recipes/cherry-and-goat-cheese-steak-salad
Please note I figured out how to add a link! Mine has a few changes, I cook the steak whole and cut my portion in cubes, not strips, I used dried cranberries instead of dried cherries, I was out of pecans and used mozzarella cheese instead of goat cheese.
Mr Merry has his salad in a bowl and his steak on a plate.
I thought I wasn't doing any more pickles. I guess that wasn't true.
Today was a day at the church charity office. All my clients were young, single mothers. It was an interesting and frustrating mix of people. First I had an unemployed with no income young lady with an infant who has a story about the boyfriend. She left him for reasons and someone (I wasn't clear who or what) put her up for seven days in a motel where I guess she watched tv in the air conditioning. Her time was up. My question is - what is the plan? We can't support her, no one has funds to support her. My organization does not do motel rooms. We assist with rent and utilities. I put her in touch with several resources to contact but she is homeless today. I am sure this information was given to her a week ago. She told me her mother would not let her stay with her and that all of her relatives told her they don't have room for her and the baby. And that sounds off. And I know I sound mean, but here is the story I give young people.
It sounds like you have burned some bridges. You need to go to your family and apologize even if it isn't your fault. You need to beg to be allowed to stay and have a plan. Like finding a job and saving to move out by a certain date. I sound meaner now, right?
But there is no place for her to go. The shelters are full. The home for abused women is full. There is no funding for anything. The list for my county for metro housing is 200 households. There are no open rentals.
Unless she can find someone to put her up in a hotel again, I told her the police station has a meeting room with cots and showers for nights and she can hang out in the air conditioned library during the day.
The next girl/woman has been to us twice within the last year, the last time 2 months ago. We have spent double what we would normally spend on a household in a year. She is spending twice her income on rent/utilities/high car payment, etc. Again, we need to make some changes. A big help would be a roommate. And a better job. Or a second job. And, now call me snarky, she had just dyed her hair blue and had her nails done. Which I know is less than a rental payment, but still.
And the next was a girl/woman who is short $400 a month. She is working a decent job, but again high rent and a high car loan due to bad credit. She almost made it this month but lent her car to the baby dad and he did something so she had to get it out of impound. And that blew the budget. She is on the waiting list for metro and if they would even cover 1/2 her rent for the month, she and her two children would be free and clear.
I don't want to pick on young women. Last week we had 2 grown ups. Women in their 50/60's who were living beyond their means, could downsize apartments and quit paying for phones, etc for adult children, but instead are taking payday loans and coming to us with shut off notices.
AND last week I had a young mom who had been living in a bad situation with her parents. She had taken the schooling to be a nursing assistant, saved and used her income tax refund for the deposit on an apartment and utilities, paid off her car loan and found a job that will cover expenses for her and her daughter. She just needed help with this month's rent as she waits on her first pay check. I wanted to give her a medal.
ENOUGH of this judgemental whining.
I took the glue sticks and scissors with me to the office but forgot the passports and also forgot the lettering for the signs.
Tomorrow I am going on a field trip with friends to the Mennonite grocery, the egg farm, the Mennonite butcher and an Amish produce stand. Then I will begin baking for my church festival. I will confess up front I bought pie crust at Aldi. My arthritis is not going to let me make my famous 15 crust recipe. I think my goal is six pies. We will see what we get. And also cupcakes for the cake walk. I actually take them in disposable foil cupcake pans.
My church drama is a long story, but I refuse to play with the mean girls. The festival people asked me if I would be willing to work on Sunday in the money room for the day which has limited entrance and the mean girls can't come in. So I said yes and will be there 8-10 hours with the nice girls.
And to end a post that is all over the place, I was randomly googling on Amazon for "mother of the groom" dress since my son is getting married in October. And found this fully lined, sequined three quarter sleeved dress - 1 left - in my size - in this color - and mid calf length so it's floor length with no hemming for me - regular $139, for $18!!!!!
Wednesday, July 9, 2025
More Garden and Camp Prep
Tuesday, July 8, 2025
The Storm
I know I have said several times that I am an indoor person. But long, long ago I was an outdoor person. I was so much of an outdoor person that for two years I was our local Girl Scout Day Camp Director.
Before you get too excited, Day Camp was one week long. But keep in mind that during those 2 years I was also employed at the library and was raising five children aged 5-11. Yet I stepped up to use my vacation time to lead a week long camp in late June for about 200 girls. This was in the late 1980's and our camp was out in the country, actually very close to where I buy my eggs. There was a long building with a kitchen and electricity and, most importantly, a land line, since there were no cell phones. It was right next to the river. We did not use the building for much since it was full of metal bunk bed frames with mattresses and we were a day camp.
I have lots of camp stories but the one I want to share today is this one. My day camp had one overnight - Thursday night. Each "unit" had to pitch a large tent at the beginning of camp for their supplies and to sit in, for fun and to get out of the rain. The camp was equipped with "platform tents", a wooden platform with canvas tent walls and peaked roofs, a little up hill from the unit tents, that we used for the overnight. Some girls preferred to stay in the unit tents in groups for the overnight
I was always very nervous about supervising all these little girls who belonged to other people, especially in the dark, and signed up as many adult and teen volunteers as possible. The first year I stayed up ALL night walking between the tents and platforms and just keeping an eye on everything. When some leaders woke up early, I dashed home at 6am, took a shower, drank coffee and drove back for the final day. That was my plan the second year.
One of the reasons I was so nervous I remembered an event ten years earlier in Oklahoma where two Girl Scouts were abducted from a camp and horribly murdered. And I never forget a horrible event.
We had a normal camp day and added in a campers stew for supper. We made our s'mores and sang some songs and told some stories. And eventually around 10pm the camp settled down in their sleeping bags and began to fall asleep. And then the skies opened. Thunder and lightning and torrential rain. A storm that was not forecast to happen. The tents flooded first, then the platforms. We gathered all the girls and put them in the hall. We put 4 girls on top of each bunk bed unit since the floor was quickly puddled and slippery. The girls were drenched, the bedding was drenching, everything was drenched.
The Sheriff's department called us during the evacuation to the hall. We had informed them we would be having an overnight and had asked for extra patrols. As soon as the rain started, they tried to come out and found all the roads leading to the camp flooded. They told us to shelter in place and that they would call us from dispatch every 15 -30 minutes.
We had flashlights (power was out, but not the phone, thank goodness). Being good Girl Scouts, my leaders had their folders with parent info and took turns calling every single parent to tell them the girls were okay and not to try to come to camp and that we would release campers in the morning starting after breakfast when the road opened. The sheriff called us every 30 minutes the rest of the night to make sure we were okay.
Because I am me, I had recently been to a discount store. The store was getting rid of a brand of cheap nail polish and marked it down to 10 cents a bottle. I had purchased every bottle for slumber parties with my daughters and their friends and had left them in my trunk. I retrieved them and the girls stayed up all night painting fingernails and toenails by flashlight.
The adults manned the phones, made coffee over campfire and tried to mop the floor. And listened to the river raging outside the back door.
The rain stopped by the morning. We called all the younger girls who did not sleep over and told them not to come. We made breakfast over campfires and had the girls eat on the bunks so they wouldn't slip and fall. We offered coffee to the deputies who finally made it to camp. My good friend Betsy (God rest her soul) was one of the first ones there. She was a mother of five, too. Five girls. And brought her enormous mis-matched sock basket so that all the campers could put on dry mis-matched socks before putting on their wet shoes.
Once we fed them, we had the girls hunt for their belongings and put them in piles outdoors so that they could point their parents to which muddy mess was theirs.
The adults spent the rest of the day scrubbing the camp and drying out what we could. Officials from the Girl Scout district office paid us a visit and were very blase about the whole thing. Personally I did not sleep for weeks and weeks afterwards.
The events of last weekend have brought those memories back to me. What I remember is how the sheriff's department was so intense about keeping in touch with us and worrying about how to reach us. And that I knew a lot of the farmers in our rural area had CB radios and if we did need to be evacuated, every single one of them would be there with a tractor or spreaders braving the water to get to us. I am not sure if I came up with this or the department mentioned this possibility on a phone call.
I just can't imagine how this happened to that camp in Texas. I just can't imagine. And my heart is broken.
Monday, July 7, 2025
The Idea Came to Me
No photos today. I just checked and the last one I took was my tomatoes ready for the freezer.
I thought I would share what I am currently obsessed with. "Mimi Camp"!
When my first grandson was born over seventeen years ago, my daughter and her family lived in Florida, over 1,000 miles away. I came up with the concept of Mimi Camp and even bought him a onesie that said Gramma Camp when he came up for a visit before his first birthday. It was a plot to spend a week with my grandchildren every summer.
Little did I know that a few years later the family would move back here and all my children would remain near us. And following my parent's health issues, I became the childcare provider. My grandkids were and are at my house every week!
But that doesn't stop a good idea. Over the years we have had Space Camp, American Camp, Star Wars Camp, Cowboy Camp and it's repeat Not My First Rodeo Camp. Cooking Camp, Art Camp, Construction Camp - I can't remember all 16 camps, lol.
This year I was stumped. No ideas were forthcoming. Then, one night, VIOLA - (I worked with a woman who would put that in emails when she meant Voila, it is an inside joke among some old friends). Anyway, the inspiration is - A Trip to Europe! When I told my husband that evening, he told me that we can't afford to take 10 children to Europe.
I spent the night with a legal pad and Pinterest. I mentioned the next morning that I had ordered some passports (they look just like passports and are note pads). Again he said, we can't afford to take 10 children to Europe.
The total ridiculousness of buying tickets, getting passports and planning an itinerary of hotels and restaurants and points of interest in a few weeks escaped him twice, even after explanation.
We are taking a land cruise! I mailed out the travel brochures and reservation forms. We will arrive in my dining room every morning and breakfast in a different country. Since everyone plays soccer, we will go to the soccer field before it gets too hot and use up some energy. I have craft and stem activities and themed lunches.
I am gathering supplies and recipes and grocery lists. I am happy to report that a package caught my eye at Aldi and it turns out they have cookies from other countries. Monday we will be in London, Tuesday, Paris, Wednesday, Milan, Italy (chosen because we live near a village named Milan) and Thursday Munich, Germany. Four days because it is a miracle we can do 4 days in a row with sports camps, etc.
We will be building the London Bridge and Eiffel Tower, painting birdhouses like gingerbread, creating masterpieces and mosaics, building volcanos, making pretzels, visiting a pizzeria. I will be decorating the dining room every day and since, boo hoo, the campers are getting older - I am opening the craft box leftovers from previous years for afternoons.
I am so inspired and excited. I have my menu plans, I'm working on decorations, tomorrow I will be doing the pages inside the passports.
Orders are arriving from Oriental Trading (thanks for the free shipping day guys) and Amazon. There have been some visits to the Dollar Stores.
AND, if my summer couldn't get better, my oldest granddaughter who is going to be a sophomore has asked me to put on a TEA PARTY for her and her friends the week before school starts. I told her I have lived for this day and may be overwhelming her with photos of the insides of my china cabinets.
Saturday, July 5, 2025
Saturday
Now I have my feet up in the air conditioning and I am looking at the supplies for my summer camp for my grandchildren. It is a little overwhelming, lol.
Friday, July 4, 2025
Container Gardening Gone Wild
It started with a 3' raised metal planter to put two tomato plants, a second planter for pepper plants.
Then he wanted two more planters for zucchini, squash and cucumbers.
And then he wanted one more for lettuce and beans.
This was what he brought in on Thursday night to join what was in my frig.
Tonight I made nine 1/2 pints of freezer pickles. Tomorrow I start freezing tomatoes. He tells me zucchini is ready.
Am I ready for this?
Wednesday, July 2, 2025
I've got the Designer Vibe
Tuesday, July 1, 2025
July
Lilies still blooming. I took this photo yesterday before the end of pride month.
We have decided that this fall it all needs dug up. All of it. We need to separate the lilies and lose about 80% of them. We want to replant the lilies and the hostas and the iris which are also higher than and hiding the pink spirea bushes in small clumps with SPACE inbetween plants. It's too much, it's all too much. And I am just glad it is hiding the weeds.
Meanwhile. How is the bathroom project?
First - skeletons are in stock.
Next. A woman who looked to be in her 80's was browsing in the tool section. She asked my husband for advice on a knife sharpener. She has a machete she wants to sharpen. We entertained ourselves all the way home wondering weeds or husband?
Finally picked up the toilet and about a zillion dollars more of the small stuff.
It's out of control, too. We lost June due to Mr Merry rebuilding my son's truck. And that is still never ending.
We have too many supplies. It has been going on for so long I can't remember what we even have. We were searching on line for a shower curtain rod last night (he wants one that is permanently installed) and I can't remember the finishes of what we already have. Mr Merry was throwing out memories and thinks we got stainless steel handicap rails (we didn't, that I know) and a "black" towel rack and then said he thought gold faucets. He wasn't being funny, he doesn't see anything wrong with this list.
I know that the handles are brushed something because I spent a lot of time looking for what I wanted - not to thin, not to thick, I practiced wrapping my hand around them. The shape, etc. I know what they look like.
I would almost guess I picked matching faucets? I would think I bought them the same day? And I can't believe I picked up "black" towel racks.
The next plan is to dig all this out from the garage, the spare room and where ever else he has been stashing parts and compare. And if I have to repurchase anything - I am pitching a fit!