Wednesday, April 26, 2023

Ending April

I guess I'm sharing photos again!  I wanted to do one last post for April and, as usual, I am too tired to think of words. (Ha, talking nonstop is my super power)

Tomorrow I am going to our four day State Genealogy Conference which is being held conveniently in the city next to us. I am driving back and forth each day and I am pretty excited to be out and about. I did not register for the lunches with speakers ($40). Instead I am going to take my own self, all by myself, to a nearby Olive Garden and sit by myself and treat myself to the soup and salad lunch. 

Meanwhile


We bought grandparent/grandchildren season passes to a Hands On Childrens "Imagination Station".  I bought special outfits for our first trip. 


The plan worked. This was our ride home. 


When Mimi gets you ready for soccer. 


Yes, the egg that made them awestruck was a double yolker. 


I put this photo on my Facebook page. I have lived here over 40 years. I have planted hundreds of bulbs. This year I have zero tulips and one daffodil.  And boy, is this daffodil hardy. It flowered at least 2 weeks ago and we have had a few frosts. It looks exactly the same.  And I touched it today to make sure it was real. 


Does anyone read the Joanne Fluke books about the baker that solves mysteries? This recipe came from one of those books. It is called "Cheese Pops" and the description in the book got me.  I skimmed the recipe poorly and dashed off a quick grocery list.  It took me 3 days to make them.  There is a lot of "chill for 3 hours" which stretches into the next day because I have moved to a different project. They were okay.  I have already formulated a variation which will streamline the process and change it up a little.  I won't have time to try it for a while, but I think the premise is good. 

Her books have been made into a series on Hallmark or Lifetime. When we didn't have cable, I was so jealous that others got to watch these cozy mystery series.  Then we got cable. I am one of "those". The actresses do not resemble the characters in the books, not physically and not by their actions. I  have not found one mystery series that I enjoy. So I am back to re-reading my books and trying to talk my husband into cancelling cable! 

Thursday, April 20, 2023

Growing Up So Fast

Sometimes I don't post because of the complicated manner I use to transfer photos to my laptop.  Sometimes I don't post because I don't have anything nice to say. And most times I just don't have time.  But, today, I just wanted to share. 

Yesterday was my youngest granddaughter's birthday and she turned 7. I don't know how that is possible. She is my youngest daughter's daughter and I have cared for her nine months of every year while mama teaches fourth graders. Now she goes to school with mama and plays before and after school in rotating classrooms of teacher moms and dads who have to be there early and stay late. 

But for her actual birthday, she wanted to come to Mimi's house. She likes to plan ahead and I was receiving orders for a few days. Yesterday she went to school and I hit the stores. I stopped at Dollar Tree for balloons, gift bags and paper plates, I stopped at Aldi for chocolate milk, bread and butter, then IGA for chocolate ice cream, orange sherbet, pink premade icing, and fresh vegetables for  a tray.  

I dashed home, took a shower, made lunch for hubby and two preschoolers, dressed, packed my to-do bag and went to sit in our church office for 4 hours. 

I had already baked 4 - 4 inch cakes for her to decorate when she got here after school.  I had pre-browned ground beef so she could make her specialty - Hamburger Helper Cheeseburger Macaroni. 

She loves to pour the hot water, milk and seasoning packet and gently stir the mixture. She put the clean, cut vegetables on a plate and we put softened butter in little pink cups. 

It was the birthday party she wanted with two of her favorite cousins, an aunt, her baby brother and mom and grampa and mimi.  I just love her sweetness and innocence and wish I could hold on to these moments forever! 

Thursday, April 13, 2023

Too Much Talking

My last two posts were words. And a little sad.  

So I think I would change things up with a few random photos and be a little more upbeat. 

Things are still crazy. I told someone I feel like I am running on a hamster wheel! We are finishing our fourth school break this week. 


Let's start with breakfast! I have not only friended a local source for fresh eggs, my eggs are delivered to my porch on their daughter's ballet lesson day. 


I wanted to try a new breakfast restaurant that I had heard SO much about before our tourist season begins.  We ordered coffee that came in mugs, we got a carafe of coffee for the table and she brought us filled carry out cups of coffee when we left. 


I was privileged to attend "Hello Dolly" at one school, "The Descendants" at another school and was specially invited to this second grade concert. 


My Beswick Beatrix Potter figures stood guard on my Easter Petit Fours.


We are back to Muffin Tin Mondays for lunch for my preschoolers.


Our normal temperatures in April are in the forties and fifties.  Sometimes we get a light snow.  Today our temperatures were in the eighties and grampa did his best to create shade for our outdoor play. Our trees don't have leaves yet!!!

Tuesday, April 11, 2023

Just a quick update.

Just a quick note to let you know - the Bluebird's sister who just turned four the night she was taken ill has gotten her test results back today on what would have been Bluebird's first birthday. 

Although she is a carrier, just like her mom and her dad, she DOES NOT have the disease. She will most probably have to decide not to have biological children but she will live a long and happy and healthy life with no complications. And would have never known she was a carrier of this awful disease if she had not been tested after her sister's death. 

Bluebird's teen half sister is still waiting for her test results. 

I am so happy for the family and we are continuing to pray for the older sister.  

Sunday, April 2, 2023

March

When I was last heard from, I was in a very sad place. An update to the tragic situation, the family has asked for any further donations and fundraisers to go to their city's summer recreation program to sponsor children who cannot afford to participate in the summer activities. Mom is staying home for the rest of the school year and the family is still praying for clear results for the bluebird's sisters. 

I accepted a position on a temporary committee with our city which means I have to do homework and dress up every other Monday to meet with adults. 

I continue to volunteer with a sister church on a 501c3 committee that provides financial help with housing and utilities. I had one client that required me to pray for 24 hours for a solution. It was such a tough situation. My solution, after all that reflection and prayer, was that she needed more help than we could provide, financially, spiritually, physically, and more.  Before I could call her to try to refer her to maybe a residential facility or at least a trained counselor, she lost contact with us. Two weeks later, a family member has stepped up to assist her and we were able to help provide some financial support to get her on track. Whew. That was a tough one. Then the diocese announced new changes and I am not sure if our group will be able to continue, how it will be configured and if we are going to find ourselves "homeless" because our office space is being taken over. I have served on this group for more than 15 years and, honestly, if we are required to merge with anyone, I'm out. 

In our state, public school spring break is up to each individual school district so that every grandchild and teacher mom is off at a different time. Week one was spent on an elaborate schedule designed by my six year old granddaughter and three year old grandson.  We had lunch at Olive Garden, Taco Tuesday at a Mexican restaurant, an overnight at Mimi's house, a trip to a children's play museum, dinner in a railroad car, a sunny afternoon at an all accessible park.  There was probably more, but I am too tired to remember.  Someone taught her to read and write and she made a calendar. 

Week two was spent with three boys whose house is in one school district and mom teaches in the adjoining district. She did not have the same week off. We had more overnights, more playground visits, some fast food instead of restaurants, and ended the week with cases of strep throat. Fortunately not for Mimi and Grampa. 

I went to lunch one afternoon during week 2 with two friends from high school. It was fun to catch up, but the next day one of them tested positive for covid. She had zero symptoms but had to test with her husband since he was having surgery. He continued to test negative and was able to have his surgery. She moved upstairs in their house. I tested for several days, never had symptoms and never tested positive. She used several brands since she thought it was a false positive, but tested positive on every test she took. She never had a symptom. 

For week three I was planning on an hour and 45 minute drive to pick up my teen granddaughter and come home. When I was 15 minutes from her house on a four lane highway, trucks pulled up with signs and closed the road! I guess work on an overpass weakened something ahead. We all had to funnel on an access exit onto single lane city streets in the middle of nowhere. I just followed the slow moving start and stop line. It only took one hour and fifty minutes to reach her house after exiting the highway. We had planned to be sitting in a restaurant in my town at that time. We did chart a different way back home and spent the week visiting thrift shops in several neighboring communities, every Goodwill I could find, yarn shops since she is teaching herself to crochet, cute health food type cafes, coffee shops and staying up late to watch marathons of Project Runway. 

No one is on spring break this week but next week the two we feed breakfast and put on the school bus every day are on break. 

This weekend I was meeting with former work friends for our monthly brunch. I stopped to pick up a friend who suffered a stroke a few years ago. We exited her house and were headed to the driveway. She said "I hope this wind doesn't knock me over" - like people say . . . And the wind knocked her over. Her yard has an incline and she rolled down a hill. I was unable to pick her up and it started to rain. I called my husband, who got caught in a funeral procession for a retired sheriff, and he arrived to get her up and in the house before a huge thunderstorm hit. I sat with her and made her tea (she was more embarrassed than hurt) until my daughter called to see why I wasn't at her house which is 45 minutes away, for a play we were attending that started in 30 minutes.  I dashed out and made it to the play 3 minutes after the start while they were still telling us to silence our phones. We went out to dinner after so I had breakfast at 5:30 pm.  I called my friend last night and she was fine, her brother was there and she was taking a Tylenol and headed to bed. 

Okay, I think I'm caught up.  I'm sure more was going on but I can't remember ( a few genealogy zooms and I am going to a 3 day state conference this month), trouble with my goofy neighbors, had taxes done and the three year old had to go along, helped switch three rooms of furniture at my daughters).  

I hope to do an update on my guest room where people are booking their spring break stays.  I never did finish my series on my Christmas Bed and Breakfast - Falalala Llama suite - which turned out just adorable.  At the end of February I completely redecorated with items I already owned. I only had to purchase two inexpensive coverlets from Amazon for under $25 for both. I have decided to update you on the llama room next year when I decorate in November. 

I do read blogs every morning as part of my coffee break routine and comment when possible. Thank you all for being my friends! 


Miss Merry